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		<title>Dating Daddy?</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/04/07/dating-daddy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Apr 2013 15:02:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Little girls love their dads. And if they&#8217;re lucky, their dad&#8217;s love them right back in a healthy, safe, abundant way. And so, when girls grow up and go out into the world of dating, they look for that man. &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/04/07/dating-daddy/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1992&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Are you diving into a shallow pool?</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/02/13/are-you-diving-into-a-shallow-pool/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Feb 2013 12:04:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we want something bad enough, and we&#8217;re in a hurry to achieve it, get it, feel it, secure it, we sometimes put blinders on, and dive in. Our desire for immediate gratification can be all encompassing depending how hungry &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/02/13/are-you-diving-into-a-shallow-pool/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1978&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Donut or apple? How will you choose?</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/02/02/donut-or-apple-how-will-you-choose/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2013 13:40:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a truth that you will need to accept, grasp, understand, make peace with and use as tool to move you forward, if you want to recover. That truth is this: We love and allow hurtful people into our &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/02/02/donut-or-apple-how-will-you-choose/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1964&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Where is she now, in 2013?</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/01/27/where-is-she-now-in-2013/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2013 12:29:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the things that I don&#8217;t always write about on my blog or on the forums is where I stand now in recovery, in my life and with my relationships. I think we (me included) tend to think a &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/01/27/where-is-she-now-in-2013/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1957&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Perception</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/01/20/perception/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jan 2013 15:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Keep your eyes wide open and don't be afraid to see things as they are, not as you wish them to be. Remember, when you love yourself, you do everything in your power to protect yourself. And most of the time that means staying grounded in reality.  <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/01/20/perception/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1946&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Children of alcoholics</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/01/20/children-of-alcoholics/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jan 2013 12:27:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Originally published January, 21 2009 I&#8217;ve been talking to someone new. We are clicking mentally, that&#8217;s for sure. But there&#8217;s a flag waving in the distance and I cannot tell if it&#8217;s red or white. We&#8217;ve discussed his alcohol consumption, &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2013/01/20/children-of-alcoholics/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=364&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Has your PoA turned into your own form of cancer?</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/12/24/has-your-poa-turned-into-your-own-form-of-cancer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2012 11:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The PoA still on your brain? Can&#8217;t shake him? Of course he is still there. And he will be until you do what you fear most…kill the thoughts and let go. Think of it like this: we carry our addictions &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/12/24/has-your-poa-turned-into-your-own-form-of-cancer/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1930&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Living a tragic life?</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/11/30/living-a-tragic-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2012 12:11:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Up until about a couple years ago, shamefully late in life, I realized that life does not need to be tragic. Some lives can be lived without event, without drama, without a tragic twist to an otherwise peaceful, good life. &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/11/30/living-a-tragic-life/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1907&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The WHOLE picture</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/11/20/the-whole-picture/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Nov 2012 12:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes we date people like our parents because we have no other model of who might be appropriate for us to date. When we don&#8217;t have an identity of our own, we tend to let others (like parents) dictate what &#8230; <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/11/20/the-whole-picture/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1883&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Review of last night&#8217;s Huffpost Live Segment</title>
		<link>http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/10/20/1874/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2012 12:53:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>l0velyjune</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes time to get healthier--when that very behavior really starts to wreak havoc on every aspect of your life--then what? Take drugs? Treat the symptoms? That's so typical of American medicine and why there is an underlying belief that addiction cannot be cured.  <a href="http://thelovelyaddict.com/2012/10/20/1874/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=thelovelyaddict.com&#038;blog=11687406&#038;post=1874&#038;subd=l0velyjune&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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